Stewardship—Not Selfishness

If you’ve ever thought about taking a day to yourself—to breathe, to pray, to rest—only to feel guilt creep in, you’re not alone.

As women, we are often the glue that holds everything together: our homes, our families, our work, our ministries. Stepping away, even for a few hours, can feel like we’re leaving something unattended or worse, letting someone down.

But here’s the truth: Jesus, the Son of God, often stepped away from the crowds, the demands, and the needs of others to rest and reconnect with the Father. He understood something we often forget—if you don’t refill, you’ll eventually run dry.

The Lie: “They need me, so I can’t leave.”

Yes, they need you. But they need you healthy, joyful, and present—not burnt out, exhausted, short-tempered, and resentful. Saying “yes” to everything without pause doesn’t make you more faithful or more fruitful—it just makes you more depleted.

The Truth: Rest is part of your calling and it is holy.

God didn’t just suggest rest. He commanded it. Sabbath was His idea. It’s woven into the rhythm of creation. Rest isn’t a luxury; it’s obedience.

Why a Self-Care Day Matters

A self-care day—especially in Christ-centered settings like A Day at The Well or The Well—isn’t about escaping your responsibilities. It’s about equipping yourself to return to your responsibilities stronger, clearer, and more Spirit-filled.

What Happens When You Fill Your Cup

When you take intentional time to rest, you don’t come back weaker—you come back renewed. Your patience is deeper. Your countenance is brighter. Your creativity is sharper. Your spirit is lighter. You show up better than before.

So, the next time guilt whispers, “You can’t step away—they need you,” remember: They need the best you. And the best you is a well-rested, renewed, Spirit-filled you.

My upcoming event, A Day at The Well, is your invitation.

I invite you to quiet the noise so you can hear God’s voice again. I invite you to release the pressure to perform and just be in His presence. I invite you to connect with women who understand your world and will encourage you.

Step away. Breathe deeply. Let God pour into you.

You’ll return ready to pour out again—this time, from overflow.